Everything Is Going Down, But The Word Of God……One more chance lead singer with Ricky Dilliard and New G, Evangelist Lillian Lloyd is divorcing her husband Nealon Graham. Cardi B announced of Instagram she was leaving Offset and it looks like the Hip Hop Gospel Vocalist is following her lead. Many of us that have known Lillian for years were shocked three years ago when she eloped and all of a sudden married to Nealon. It seemed that he appeared out of nowhere and the two were married. Perhaps Lillian felt the pressure Juanita Bynum did as a female in the male dominated Gospel Industry. Rumors have been flying for years how women get mistreated by men on the Evangelist Field. Often they do not pay them properly and walk over them, but when they are married and have recourse to get their husband involved it changes the dynamic. Whatever the case was Lillian was married to a man she reunited with from 30 years ago.
According to Nealon while he was visiting his children in Georgia, Lillian cleared out their apartment in Chicago. A friend Rosalind from Dallas flew to Chicago and rented a moving truck and helped Lillian moved the entire house including food and all. She only returned with his medication once he flew back to Chicago after receiving Lillian’s Dear John letter (you can read it below) to Nealon. She picked the perfect time to cut him just before she went to Germany on a month tour and will not ship his things to him until she returns in the new year!
This tumultuous marriage is playing out like a movie. More details are coming in that are jaw dropping on each side that we are working on as we speak. Obnoxious Media has reached out to Lillian, but have not been able to reach her largely to her being out of the country, to get her account of what happened and why she decided to leave her husband.
Read the email Evangelist Lillian Lloyd sent he soon to be ex-husband Nealon Graham below:
Let me start by saying that I love you very much I always have I always will nothing will ever change that. I must also say that I love me I love my life I love what God has called me to do. One of my greatest faults is putting other people before me. Being more concerned about everybody else’s happiness and comfort rather than my own. For the last two years I have put you in a place where you didn’t deserve to be. Against my better judgment I allowed you to come into my home into my life and into my world. You never belonged here you didn’t earn this life you never worked for these surroundings. I spent 30 years of my life studying rehearsing traveling serving in music and theater work to prepare for this part of my life. You have spent the last 30 years partying doing drugs getting in and out of trouble in and out of marriages and relationships and going back-and-forth to jail. How then do you figure that you deserve to sit on the same row with me just on the strength of being my husband.
Anyway I told you when you came up here two years ago that you needed to go back home to give me time to process all of this and you refused because you knew if I had a moment to myself that I would never go forward with this relationship you forced your way the entire time but it ends here. There is no need for you to come home because if you return there will be nothing here for you to return to. All of my things have been placed in storage everything else I will be throwing away. Don’t worry all of your things have been boxed and will be shipped to your parents or wherever you decide. U don’t owe me anything and I don’t owe you anything . I have tried to help but I have failed I have toiled but to no avail.
I should have thrown you out of here that day but I chose to let you stay I wasn’t even married to you then but I held onto you trying to love you and show you care and support and you violated every time.
Whenever we have a bad day I go out of town and come back and you go into this long speech about how God has been dealing with you about first one thing and then another and that we’re going to pray every day and we are going to read our Bible every day we never do that together you never stick to that but guess what I read my word and I prayed with or without you and I know that the things you say and do are not of God.
You say whatever you have to say in order to keep me hanging on. I’m tired of just hanging on I deserve better! You should get tired of just going through the motions you should just get tired.!!!
I have been going crazy the last few days trying to put all of this stuff together without you being aware of what was going on around you. I have asked you to leave repeatedly you refused so now I’m leaving. There is no coming back. You will not be allowed to contact me your phone will be disconnected you have to get service some other way. I will be leaving for Europe on Monday that’s right I’m going to Germany on tour. I’ll be there until next year. I have known about the tour since August it has been driving me nuts trying to do all of this stuff in secret sneaking around learning the music preparing for the concerts making arrangements. Standing outside in the cold talking to promoters to keep you from hearing my conversations.Nealon you had to know that this wasn’t going to last. I am asking you to respect my wishes and please do not try to contact anyone in my family nor my Choir nobody is going to talk to you nobody is going to listen to you just leave it alone and move on with your life. My prayers for you were sincere. I want you to do well I want your ministry to flourish I want you to be all God has called you to be but you must get delivered and get delivered for real. I will keep our personal business away from social media and I would ask that you do the same. My publicist has advised me not to even speak on our marriage. This situation is between me and you. At least give me that respect.